I knew a man and now he is gone.
I did not know him well; just at bowls.
He seemed kind, a cheerful happy man.
I liked him but I did not really know him.
One day I heard he was dying of cancer.
I did not visit him; he had many friends,
why should he wish a visit from me,
just another face from bowls?
He came to the club, one last time.
I did not recognize him, so thin, so gaunt.
He was dying before my eyes, tired pale.
Then he was gone!
I wondered if I should have been to see him?
Should I have held his hand?
Should I have said something, anything?
I had known a man and now he was dead.
I had not done or said anything!
But that does not mean that I do not care.
David Garlick, Sidney, June, 2001